Yesterday morning, at the Kensington Parkway bridge over Rock Creek, I saw a beaver on the downstream side.
It swam under the bridge, so I crossed, and saw it emerge on the upstream side.
Do you mind?
Ask: “Tell me about a time…” By asking about a discrete moment in time, you encourage the sharing of experience and the details and emotion that accompany the recollection.
Ask for superlatives....
We tend to remember the superlative moments in our lives. Probe for those experiences. Ask for heightened emotional moments. Emotion is often referred to as the “glue” of memory. Ask people about moments when they have felt connected, surprised, or touched. Ask for “Aha!” moments of epiphany and for turning points.
You can also share a story of your own—and then be quiet. Sit back, and transfer all your attention to the person with whom you just shared your story. Most likely, you will hear one in return. If necessary, ask: “Does that story remind you of anything?”
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| The Mountain Goats rocking Melbourne's Toff, 9 May 2012 (iPhone photo). |
| Max Savage and the False Idols at the Toff, 8 May 2012 (camera: Ricoh GX-100). |
"What's hoppy? Like an IPA?"And he replied:
"Yes. Would you like a taste?"I did a double-take, and looked at the taps, and yes, they had a beer on tap called "Hoppy."
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| "We love you, John!" The Mountain Goats at the Toff, 9 May 2012 (iPhone photo). |
